Velcro Holding Him Back

Most everything comes pretty easy for my boys. Other than barely uttering a word before he turned three, Jackson has mostly been ahead of the game. The kid has been reading since preschool, doing math that required me to bust out a calculator when he was in kindergarten, and he’s already learned most of his multiplication tables just for fun. If I hadn’t been in the delivery room when he arrived I might have a few questions right about now. My point is, he’s a pretty sharp kid, but I think I finally found his weakness… tying his shoes.He wears velcro shoes most of the time, so we haven’t put in much practice time. In preschool he decided he wanted to learn on his cleats and it didn’t go too well.  He got these shoes last year, and again, it wasn’t a huge success as you can see here. He gets better, but then the velcro is back, and he forgets about if for awhile. I don’t know what reminded him this time, but he’s been on a mission lately. Let me tell you, when this kid has trouble with a mission, serious frustration follows. I guess when most things come easy, and you finally find something you can’t seem to conquer, you want to give up.Then you want to try again.Then give up.You may even want to cry,but then you try again.Then you have a mini panic attack,that turns into a bigger panic attack,then you try again.Finally you have a full on melt down,and beg for mercy from the shoe tying Gods.After all that, your Mom distracts you with something, and you try again another day. He finally got it a few times, but it is far from mastered. It made him feel a little better to know that his brother didn’t really get it until he was eight, and to be honest, isn’t that great at it to this day. I have a feeling we’ll have a few more days of frustrations, but I’m thinking as long as he gets it by the time he’s eight, he’ll consider that victory.